The very term “
Coming Out of the Coffin” is a term coined by Father Sebastiaan during the days at
MOTHER and Long Black Veil in New York City. This term reflects being open about one’s nature to friends, family and publicly, however, few True Vampyres have this luxury. The vast majority of Strigoi Vii initiates and ronin wish to keep their private lives private and their identities confidential as to not alert their potential sources of prana to who and what their intentions are. This is of course afforded to them with the Principle of Secrets from the Black Veil as directed by the Ancients.
With the recent “vampire craze” life has become easier and in a stronger direction towards openness with the mortal minded. Many of us can reveal our true natures and come out of the coffin in most situations. There are growing numbers of mortals who love vampires in every way today and mimic them throughout the year especially on Halloween. The era of fearing the predator is over and now today we live in a symbiotic and loving relationship.
I have personally heard many Vampyres state that the entire horde of literature, books, novels, fiction, entertainment and cinema were apart of some propaganda centered grand plan of the Ancients. Of course, this is the obvious answer to the educated Vampyre. What is not known to the mortal world is that their gods have been orcistraiting this agenda in different forms over the ages and our generation of Living Vampires can now benefit from centuries of planning to when, today we can go on talk shows and tell our mortals who and what we are.
However, this is still only an option for a select few of the Family who are Out of the Coffin. We must honorably respect Our True Nature in that we are still evolved noble predators and hold up this respect for all other members of the Family who still choose to embrace this old tradition.
Father Sebastiaan sets a good example of how to live Out of the Coffin, his family, colleagues, friends and lovers all know who and what he is. He has nothing to hide and lives openly running businesses catering to the mortal fascination with Our Glamour. This veiled yet very open life of being a fangsmith, author and event coordinator through SABRETOOTH and Endless Nights is a world around him. Event many religious nuts have been seduced by his admiration, respect and love for their gods but at the same time saying he doesn’t believe in anything.
For those of Us who do not have this luxury, here are a few steps we of the Synod offer you to protect your privacy and remain in the Coffin.
First - offer no explanation. Your spirituality and religion are your business and make this known. Most Western countries have freedom of religion and you are protected by this mortal law. Keep people guessing and if they ask questions simple tell them to read Sanguinomicon.
Second - if you encounter a religious nut, don't debate with them or make any attempt to do so. Let them ramble, protest and get all insane. Tell them you are not interested in discussing the subject and listen until you had enough and simply walk away. You know the truth and let that satisfy yourself.
Third - don't make a fool of yourself and wear your fangs, dress in gothic attire and broadcast your "Glamour" when amongst mortals. You can be subtle like keeping your Legacy Ankh under your shirt and discretely wearing your ring. When in areas such as the centers of large cities or during Halloween you usually have more flexibility in your outward expression. We should remain hidden amongst the mortal population. Let common sense guide you in this, as the True Vampyre rides on the concept of rationality.
The True Vampyre embraces their Sobriquet and their personal Glamour. You owe no explanations to mortals about who and what you are. It is none of their business. Uphold the Veil, do not involve minors, never break the law and don’t drink human blood and that is your sword, shield and pillar. Most humans do not believe in True Vampyres and encourage this, when asked by a mortal "do you believe in vampires?" I say "of course not." For both of us I am telling the truth.